Under the Banner of Heaven by Jon Krakauer

I hesitate to say I was raised Mormon but from about age 5 - 14, that was the church we went to almost every Sunday. My memories of it are hazy (and mostly entail playing Red Light, Green Light with other kids) but there are some parts of the theology that I remembered.

However, I will say that upon reading this book and getting the full low-down on the Mormon history, I am APPALLED that my parents signed us up for this! I know missionaries are very persuasive, well-meaning (at times) people and I'm sure painted a great story about eternal life and family and all that but did they tell them about Joseph Smith translating from a top hat or these Revelations? Do people honestly hear these things and think "Oh, yeah, I can see that"?

The book was fascinating, from my own personal history but also just in a cultural study. It goes back and forth between a savage murder in the early '80s by two Mormon Fundamentalists and the history of Mormonism, starting with Joseph Smith, through Brigham Young, and into current LDS life.

Mormonism is interesting in that it is such a young religion in comparison to other main-stream religions that there is a lot of media coverage and modern thought stemming around its creation. I feel that there is less to battle with Catholicism, Judaism or Islam since they go back so far and their starts are so clouded in history and honestly, at this point, can you really argue with something so entrenched in daily society? But to create a whole new religion that has so many similarities with those already in existence and to continue to claim yours as the "one true church" is an exercise in arrogance.

Bossypants by Tina Fey

I'm not sure how much everyone watches SNL - I don't think I ever really did before moving to NYC. Now we watch it religiously, as well as Tina's actual show, 30 Rock.

This book was HILARIOUS - I was that person cracking up on the subway amidst cranky commuters. It was a quick read and followed a brief synopsis of her life from childhood through her experiences at NBC and debating having a second child at 40.

What always strikes me about Tina Fey is that I would consider her a very pretty woman but all of her comedy is self deprecating both about her personality and her appearance. I guess self-deprecation is the cornerstone of most comedy but sometimes I feel bad for her and really hope that she doesn't really believe some of the things she says. (This is probably why I could never have my own comedy act).

My favorite part was when she was talking about her Sarah Palin SNL impression - AKA - My favorite few months of TV. If you haven't seen the season opening clip - it is a must: http://www.hulu.com/watch/34465/saturday-night-live-palin--hillary-open

I really related to her over-stressing tendencies and was glad that others must be able to find humor in my making myself crazy as I was able to find humor in hers :)

The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot

Henrietta Lacks was a poor black women who died in the 1950s from cancer. Her cells were harvested (a routine procedure for almost every medical treatment even today - do you ever read the consent forms that you sign?) and are still alive today. The HeLa cells are still being utilized for scientific research around the world and are the basis for many medical advances. Skloot does a great job of explaining the science behind all of this so that the average person can understand it.

The other side of the story is about Henrietta's family, a real study in how poverty impacts every aspect of someone's life - health, education, and ability to climb out of that situation. I found the family story fascinating from a sociological perspective especially since I worked with people in similar situations in the GED program in Baton Rouge.

My book club had a great discussion about medical ethics (a retired pediatrician joined us for the meeting to give us his perspective). Some of the members felt that Skloot inserted herself into the story too much but after reading about her background (her own father was involved in medical trials when he was dying of cancer) I feel like her involvement was appropriate.

Skloot raises important questions about medical ethics, disclosure of personal information, who owns the cells that are harvested for research and who should profit from that research. As Henrietta's son says, why can't her family even afford health insurance when others are making billions from her cells? Very thought provoking as well as a good read!

The Paris Wife by Paula McLain

Interesting book about Ernest Hemingway's first wife, Hadley, and their life together in Paris between WWI and WWII. Reminded me very much of Loving Frank - why do "geniuses" get away with behaving like jerks and why do smart women allow men to treat them so badly? In relation to When Everything Changed (see post by Lisa), some of this was due to the period they lived in but I also realize that it still happens today. Earlier this year I read part of The Autobiography of Alice B. Toklas by Gertrude Stein (NOT a book that I recommend)about the same group of people living in Paris during that time so I enjoyed getting a different view point. I confess that I haven't read anything by Hemingway but may do so in the future just to find out whether or not I agree that he was the genius that he and everyone else thought he was. The book is very well written in the genre that I recently discovered is called "creative non-fiction" - a story based on facts.

1000 White Women: The Journals of May Dodd by Jim Fergus

This book was recommended by Elizabeth and I absolutely LOVED it!

The story is based on the premise that back in 1875 the Cheyenne Indians requested the US government trade 1000 white women for 1000 horses. The idea being that in the Cheyenne culture, children are raised in the mother's tribe/culture so any children produced from these unions would be raised in white culture and it would be a learning process for the Indians, who were being decimated by whites, to become acclimated in the culture.

Naturally, in real life, this proposal didn't fly and everyone went home without a resolution but the book takes the idea that it DID happen and how the program unfolded through the journal of the main character, May Dodd.

May was in an insane asylum for promiscuity (sex does make you crazy, doesn't it?) when she signed up for the program - what better candidate to shack up with an Indian husband for two years after all? The journals take the reader through her time in the asylum, the cross-country trip to meet up with her tribe and then the gradual learning of the Cheyenne culture and working to integrate a conflicting set of values/morals into her own life.

Its an amazing concept and very well executed book. I loved all the characters, the descriptions and the writing. What really blew my mind was that it was written by a man - just like in Memoirs of a Geisha - a man being able to fully express a woman character is astonishing to me.

I hope others read it, would love to hear what you all think!

Doing my Pat Conroy Dance

Currently Reading: The Lords of Discipline

Wow, the profanity is rampant thus far. The book focuses on a South Carolina Military Institute that "makes maggots into men," etc. Pat can always take human suffering to a whole new level - his descriptions of the degradations and creative torments (that I'm sure all have a basis in truth) are astonishing and horrifying. I have no doubt that this type of treatment exists in these types of schools. I've heard people joke about "plebe" week/month/year before but I guess they have to repress the memories of how awful it truly was or, to the point that Pat makes, once they survive it, they become a part of the "the system" and embrace the madness.

As I have mentioned in prior PC posts - our main character, Will McLean, is a replica of Leo (South of Broad), Jack (Beach Music) and Tom (Prince of Tides) - all emotionally damaged men with a penchant to lash out due to an innate inability to express all of their inner torments. What I do love about these men though is that they see beauty and culture and would wrap themselves in a blanket of it but they all have that edge, that dark edge, that keeps them from the possibility of ever being fully happy.

As with other PC books, the story takes place in the Southland - Charleston, SC to be exact - and makes the reader jealous to not be from this mythical place that Pat creates. I've never been to most of the places he sets his stories in but I'm afraid that even when I go, I won't see it through these character's eyes and I can never as fully be in love with a place as he maintains someone can be.

I'm only half way through right now, can't wait to see where we go from here!

The Atlas of Love: A Novel by Laurie Frankel

This started out as a cute, simple book. It follows the main character who has two best friends and one of them gets pregnant by this guy who decides he doesn't want to have a kid. Three girls decide to move in together and raise the baby - very 3 Men and a Baby/Little Lady action - and they all experience the frustrations of raising a baby and being graduate students/professors(?).

PS - because they are all English/Literature majors, they decide to go very literary when naming the baby and name him Atlas... and even though I would love to be able to call my future daughter Scarlett, that just seems a bit much for me.

The end of the book was when it got a little weird for me - I felt that there was some serious character mangling and that the author let them go outside of their normal behavior for the sake of drama. Basically the kid's dad comes back into the picture and the kid's mom decides she is going to cut her friends out of their lives and make a sudden home with this guy. I thought her freak out was a little out of character for how she'd been built up but I guess everyone has a little crazy hiding in them.

The hardest part for me was the main character's struggle. The baby's mother was constantly relying on her friends to raise her baby and pretty much taking advantage of them so they got really attached to the baby. When the mom started going psycho, they made her start taking all responsibility ... it was a hard position of "make the mom mature and deal with her own problems because she is being a bitch to her friends" or "be with the baby." I reaaaaallly hate those positions because it always feels like there is no way to win and either way you feel like screaming. When the character did the mature thing and helped take care of the baby, I was proud of her but the anger at the friend made my stomach wrench. (I might get too involved in the books I read).